Why does the american society hate and degrade arranged marriages?

Arranged marriages are great because they benefit you when you can't get a girlfriend like it benefited me. I now have a wife despite the fact that I can't get a girlfriend. Why does everyone in america hate arranged marriages ??? It has benefits you know and I think it is so much better than wasting your time with dating. I tried dating and I'm not getting anywhere because I can't get a girlfriend so I think it's a complete waste of time. I rather have a wife instantly so I can have someone to be with and have someone in bed beside with me every night.